Hello MN
A month ago he dumped me so I moved out of our apartment and he took over the tenancy. We had only been dating for 4 months (I know, I know) we massively rushed things and he was also dealing with emotional baggage. Disaster waiting to happen. I'd even brought up marriage and kids, he seemed happy with it. He'd recently separated this year from his ex who he had a dc with. He hadn't given himself enough time to fully adjust to his new life without the family unit anymore. It all hit him when we started living together and he said he needed time. He was neglecting himself, his work, the apartment and me. He kept apologising and tried to stay in touch with me. I chose to go no contact for three weeks then responded to him. He called me and he seemed to have his head together and asked if I'd give him another chance but take it slow this time.
I saw him last weekend, I went to the apartment, he cooked me a dinner. He seemed in a better place, he was throwing himself into work, had a routine when he see's dc and was taking care of the apartment. He said mentally he felt better. He asked if I'd accept the keys to the apartment and wants me to come round whenever I want. I took them and we agreed to see how things go. He's texted/called everyday since meeting up but he hasn't made any concrete plans to see me again. I know it's lockdown but still? This week he's seeing dc lots and working lots so I didn't want to mention meeting but surely if he's asked me back, he'd make a plan to see me again. He did say "We need to get into a series on Netflix, when will you come round, the weekend?" and "So where will we go first when lockdown is over?" "I want you to spend Christmas with me" "I miss you here" I understand we're taking it slow but should we talk about what exactly slow means? I feel like I'm getting mixed signals?