Feeling lost..

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Hey - so I recently left an 8.5 year long relationship, it was his house so back home at my mums with my DD at the age of 5! I'm 32 so not the ideal but what can I do?

I'm feeling really lost and my anxiety and heartache is through the roof!

I just want the happily ever after and to be settled! I also would love more children one day but it all feels so uncertain and just rubbish right now. I can't see a way out.

I normally have a good career but because of Covid I've been made redundant. So my mums really will be home for a little while!

Argh, please help I feel so drained and just upset all the time!!

I’m sorry you feel so bad! That is normal . There is still time for you to be happy and settled, you are only 32. I would just take it one day at a time , don’t put any pressure on yourself.

@Civilhelp thank you xx

Well done on making the move! It's so courageous! My circumstances were pretty similar, I'm 31 now with a 5 yr old, 2 years ago I left long term relationship and went back to mum n dads, it felt like my world had come crashing down (even though I ended it). Remember this is only temporary. You have your little one around you to keep you going, is your mum supportive? Enjoy the peace and quiet now your away from the relationship. You dont have to make any decisions right now just focus on settling into your mums and getting yourself and daughter into a new routine. I promise things get easier, I know it's the good cliche but time really does work wonders. Please dont hesitate to get in contact I'm here to talk as I've been through the motions, but now me and my little girl have our own home and I am so happy and you will be too.