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Is enough enough?

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Needtotalk94 · 08/11/2020 19:43

Hi everyone,

I need some advice. I've been in a relationship for 5 years and of course at the start everything was perfect. The past year or 2 has not been the best. We've been fighting for stupid things, that I dont even see the point in fighting over. Sometimes my boyfriend decides he's going to ignore me for days on end and then will come around like nothing is wrong.

I've tried to ignore this, but it's really bothering me lately. I understand that everyone needs their own time now and again. I checked in on him to see was anything wrong and he literally said I should know what I did. If I'm honest I've literally done nothing wrong. The last time we seen each other, I was speaking to him and he wasn't listening to me, so I said that to him and since then he's been ignoring me.

When I messaged him, he literally told me to off etc. I cant understand what I do so wrong for him to speak to me like this. It's breaking my heart at the thoughts of loosing him, but I'm not sure if I can take anymore of this.

I've gone through a hard time this year with depression and I'm slowly feeling better each day. I'm scared I'm going to end back up where I was. I dont have any friends to speak to, so I'm just looking for some advice

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SocialBees · 08/11/2020 19:48

I can't stand people who sulk for days. This would be a deal breaker for me OP.

Pantsinthewash · 08/11/2020 20:49

So many threads in here about men giving their partners the silent treatment. It's really sad and must be horrible for you. You have a choice, you really do, as to whether you're going to put up with any more of this behaviour. He is behaving very immaturely and it's not fair on you. How is this a constructive way to resolve relationship problems? If he can't be bothered to explain calmly and politely why he's upset, then I wouldn't waste any more time on the relationship. Your mental health is far more important, and you really ought to put yourself first.

righttothepoint · 08/11/2020 20:51

I wouldn't even bother after the first time he did this! get rid of the immature loser and date a decent man Confused

IJustWantSomeBees · 13/11/2020 12:02

He is the issue.

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