First of all, my apologies as I wasn't sure where to put this post, as it is not a relationship nor is it sex.
Anyway, I know this guy and there's been a lot of flirty banter and interest shown. Which to be fair I have enjoyed as its nothing too major, but it has given me a confidence boost which is what I needed. However he's really confused me this weekend. He's gone from doing a lot of chasing and making effort and saying things that he'd like to do, and now a window of opportunity has come to meet his kind of turning it on me but I am creating obstacles to stop him. Which for the record on absolutely not. This weekend I've also felt like he's taking the opportunity to 'make himself available' when he knows i'm unable to be. For example yesterday he knew I had to be somewhere and an hour before I had to be there he wanted to see me. But he knew full well that I wouldn't be able to make it. And then after that appointment I had made plans to go on a walk. And all of a sudden when be seen i had got there (insta stories) he had another window of opportunity to see me but couldn't as I was walking, and I was a let down again.
I guess it is just confusing me and a bit game playing maybe. I don't think I can even be arsed if I'm honest but I'm just looking for people's opinions on why men do this?