What would u do.

[Saphira1308]

My ex got into a swearing match with another driver last night while our 5 year old dd and myself in car that resulted in the other guy dad came out lent in through open drivers window and what looked from my position in back passenger seat go for my my ex throat saying don't fucking talk to my son like that and then took his car keys and through them into middle of road, dd was in her car seat in front passenger seat and saw all this happening, I rang the police immediately and have got meeting with them Monday to take my statement, I feel like he put our dd at risk and it shook me up that I couldn't sleep cause of everytime I close my eyes I keep replaying the scene over. This is the 2nd time he had confrontation with someone in front of our dd, the last time was outside dd school and for that he got a warning letter from school for his behaviour. I will be informing the school on Monday morning to let there safe guarding teacher no. What would u do.

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Duh! Sorry OP! Have reported my post,having posted myself in the wrong topic! Sorry again!

Thank u, I no and am getting it moved to right board.

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Did he have anger problems when you were together?

Does he have contact alone with your daughter?

Social services will likely get involved as this has happened a 2nd time.

He's (and ultimately you) are putting your daughter at risk. He obviously didn't learn the first time.

Sortingitout. He has that's why police helped me get out. Yes as he has our dd at moment, he sulks if u don't do what he wants he's manipulative.
Townsville social workers was involved and they deemed dd is safe with her dad a as they have never seen this side of him, as far as I no they don't no about what happened outside the school and I wasn't there for that as I was working and he showed m e the letter he got sent and someone told social services he refusing to let our dd back home with me already and there not doing anything and I will be informing them first thing tomorrow as to what has happened and letting them no that this is 2nd time as well as letting the school no what happening.

This is awful and he put your child at risk, and not for the first time. You must take action to protect your child. Is he abusive to you? If me I wouldnt let him have my child at all!

Is that true that he is refusing to let your daughter come back to you?
I'm not judging but what was the situation that made you all be in the car together if the police had to help you leave this man?

Fuck his sulking, he is not a safe person to care for her he puts her in danger so he can kick off at people.

I'm confused. Do you have shared custody of your DD? He wont let your daughter come home, today or in general?
If the Police had to help you leave then there is a history of violence or threats etc plus the 2 incidents you have disclosed concerning your DD. Defo get on to SS. This isn't right.

Just got in from being with my daughter. To clarify when we was 6months old he tried stopping me from leaving with dd so I called police and they told him he can not stop me from leaving with dd. Ex was dropping me of home after he took me to do food shop as needed to do my monthly shop. Nice and calm ss no about him trying to stop me leave as we had different case worker at the time, both of us has shared parental responsibility and ex has our daughter for personal reasons at moment. I will be talking to school and ss in morning about what has happened as I'm not happy about it and will be making statement to police sometime tomorrow. I left because of trying to control me and what I do. Yes anoutheruser02 he has stopped dd coming home, that's why school rang ss to let them no.