Me and DH have lived in our 3 bed semi ex council house for 5 years It's really ugly the drive is falling apart it has no kerb appeal what's so ever. DH won't spend any money on the house as he doesn't see the point when he won't make money out of it if I try to make improvements he moans and says I'm wasting my time . We have been to see probably 100s of properties he put offer in then pulled out after the survey cause he's worried about property dipping then the mortgage rates have now increased so it's going to be more expensive he says I'm forcing him and he doesn't care hes ok with here. He said why can't you be grateful you aren't homeless or living in a mud hut?? He says I'm a snob Well no I would be happy with anything that doesn't look like a concrete block.
DH earns 6 figures no one with his job has such a rubbish house he just keeps it all in the bank .
Even with my salary I can afford better
I don't think my mental health can take another lockdown here I absolutely hate it it's driving me nuts.
I'm even thinking of going and renting somewhere by myself with DD if he wants he can come along.