Ok I got myself into a bit of a ridiculous situation..
In august I got talking to a man online, it was just a bit of flirting and from my point of view I wasn't really taking it seriously. I didn't think he was either.
We swapped numbers though and started to whatsapp. It got a bit much, he would message all the time, phone and try to facetime. I posted about it on here under a thread about love bombing and asked if these were signs. People said then that he sounded crazy and I should block him.
I didn't though, I guess I liked the attention too much. We met in person in September, 2 days before my birthday. He drove from Yorkshire to Devon to meet. During the drive he said his boss called and he would be on call out so wouldn't be able to stay long. We had a coffee, a quick kiss and cuddle and away he went.
With me what normally happens is I never see hear from anyone I meet again so expected the same. He stayed in touch though, phone calls continued every day and messages.
A few weeks ago the L bomb was dropped. The messages carried on but now I can see that its all typical narcissist behaviour. Every selfie he sends he wants me to say something, he spends all his money on expensive clothes, he hated his job because everyone was a dick head and he was the only one who could do it, he phones sometimes while driving and is always shouting and swearing.
Last week he was meant to be starting a new job. He went for training but failed the medical. He phoned me upset, but also very angry I tried to support him but only so much I can do. He is now out of a job and skint. I've at least not been stupid enough to offer any money not that I have much.
When I do message him or we talk on the phone its always about him, he never responds to anything I say, never asks about me other than what you up to, how are you.
The messages lately have become less with bigger gaps, yesterday he accused me of being moody. I said he had been cold and he said so was I. Today has been the icing though, I tweeted out morning world, a couple of hours later I just got morning. No kiss or pleasantries. I asked what was wrong and he had the hump because I said morning on twitter first and not to him. Other than just blocking him on everything what can I do? Its obvious its all just been a game to him. I'm trying not to get upset but I'm so drained by it all.