My fiancé and i have gone through a tough year (hasn’t everyone?) with little personal space or time to relax. We’ve argued a lot and I haven’t been my best or kindest self because of the stress and also because of our clash in communication styles and ways of working. I’m more driven and anxious whereas he is laid back. I think we are both in the wrong to some extent, as is the case with most relationships. We’re now in a better situation (have our own space and a bit less stress) but falling into the same patterns of behaviour (me being too critical and highly strung, him constantly disengaging and not doing things proactively with passion and energy). At the weekend we had a big row and he said he no longer loved me and had no residual feelings for me. We made a tentative peace on Sunday where he said he wants to get back on a stable footing and be happy again / work at it he has loved me in the past, but I don’t feel that can be true love if you can switch off those feelings. I feel so lost right now about what to do. He’s very stubborn and not particularly emotional, doesn’t care if I’m crying, and we’re struggling to communicate with one another at all. If backed into a corner I think he can be defensive and aggressive and lose all of the bigger picture. I feel so sad. I’ve not been perfect, but I am finding it hard to be kind and supportive or act as a team when someone has told me they have no feelings. It doesn’t feel like a good basis for a future marriage. Would welcome any advice. Thank you