I have been in a relationship with this man for 6 years. We talk to each other everyday and see each other. However everything changed during this quarantine. We video call each other everyday but when his dog started to get very sick, he lost the mood to talk to anyone. He still send me messages but he doesn’t videocall me anymore. Eventually his dog died. And he needs a week or two to really move on. Then finally he’s back to calling me again but it wasn’t everyday as it used to be. Eventually he stopped camming me. He said that his work was busy and all. He got so many excuses as to why I cannot see him. Even when he promised to see me, it didn’t happen.
The other day, I decided to download whatsapp and I saw him there. I have whatsapp few months back and he wasn’t there, so I asked him about it. He denied it was active but I gave him proof that it was active. I got angry and we argue. Eventually I stopped talking to him. The next day I asked him again, why did he lie about it if there is nothing to hide. He told me because I am accusing him of chatting with another woman when it’s not true. He is using whatsapp but not for another woman.
So I decided to stalk him on whatsapp. And viola!! I often see him being online there. He goes online there after replying to my messages but sometimes he goes online there even without replying to me...
But he kept on denying it. What should I do? What do you think? Is he cheating or not?