I’ve been seeing a guy for the last 7 months. Everything seemed great and I really like him. We both have children from a previous relationship. We had the conversation about introducing them to one another, so we did. It seemed positive and they got on and we had a really nice day. Since then my children have been asking when they can see his again. He seemed to have pulled back and avoided making any arrangements with me to do anything else. We’ve since had quite a big disagreement. I moved house and it was a really stressful time for me, as it is for anyone. I told him that I felt I didn’t matter because he was in and out of female friends houses doing things that they needed doing. While I was left with no blinds up at the kids windows etc after he said he would do them for me. I was honest and told him it made me feel like I didn’t matter or that I’m a priority. It’s since come to light that he’s been taking one of his children to meet up with his ex, not their mum. A woman he was with after he split from his children’s mother. He’s lied to me about their friendship for 7 months and I can’t understand why he’s chosen to lie for that length of time. I’m very black and white and I don’t believe he should have taken his kids to meet her if he was wanting to make a future with me. There’s no problem with having friends. What hurts me is he’s chosen to lie about an ex, it’s a big thing. If I’d have known about his friendship with her I might have made my decisions differently in regards to him and his children meeting my kids. I might have decided that it wasn’t right or I could have postponed it. Am I wrong for feeling upset? Is there any sort of future with a man like this. Please help.