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Unnecessary reporting

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spyacademy · 24/10/2020 18:51

I did another post about this but basically my gf reporting people for breaking rules which is more trouble than it's worth and it’s causing conflicts now with the neighbours. It’s my parents house and they don’t want conflicts with the neighbours. I just don’t what to do because she’s done it since March when it all started and continuning. There been people continuing to do it but she needs to ignore them.
There was these young guys getting in this car about 3 or for of them and I was just in my car then she was there taking a picture of their reg plate, it’s like come on them guys could have saw her then thought why she taking pictures of the vehicle and attacked us. It’s illegal to do that take pictures of people’s stuff without permission. When we got home she was straight on the phone reporting people.

We have also come to the point we have been having arguments because she again reported neighbour again recently for something minor and she’s been doing it so much since March. My parents said they if she’s going to cause conflicts with the neighbours by reporting them then she’s going to have to leave so I agreed with my parents but she was mad with me with agreeing. I think she just needs to stop reporting everyone I because it’s not worth it. I told her it’s easy just stop reporting people and then everything will be fine.

OP posts:
spyacademy · 24/10/2020 20:34

@Maxine3477

Sounds like she has waaay too much free time. Do she have a job? Any hobbies? Friends?
She works at McDonald's and has friends but hasn't been out with them
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spyacademy · 24/10/2020 20:34

@AttilaTheMeerkat

She is doing this for her own reasons and besides which is she is not the world's policeman.

What about you in all this, her needs here are not more important than yours.

Yes
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lughnasadh · 24/10/2020 20:35

Jesus OP, you're very easily led. Grin

Or plain full of shit.

spyacademy · 24/10/2020 20:37

@lughnasadh

Jesus OP, you're very easily led. Grin

Or plain full of shit.

No I just feel pissed of in this situation as well
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AvoidingRealHumans · 24/10/2020 20:38

Don't really have anything to add apart from thanks for this.
This really made me laugh 😆

spyacademy · 24/10/2020 20:41

@AvoidingRealHumans

Don't really have anything to add apart from thanks for this. This really made me laugh 😆
It's not funny
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ReneeRol · 25/10/2020 14:49

She sounds pathetic, tedious and insufferable. She spends her days openly looking for trouble, at some point shes going to do that to the wrong person. If you have any sense, you won't be next to her when she does that.

Your parents have the right to live comfortably in their community without your idiot girlfriend making your family social pariahs. Their home could also be targeted for retaliation if she caused trouble for the wrong person.

Get her out of their home and if you have any self respect, dump her. Find somebody who has better things to do with their life. You should be ashamed to be with someone who behaves like that, she brings you down.

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