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Is it possible to slow a relationship down?

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Notyouraveragebiscuit · 22/10/2020 20:23

Hello MNetters! My question is about my relationship which has just ended. We dated for a few months then due to circumstances we moved in together. It was way too soon and we realised it. I moved out and we pretty much broke up. He's asked me to get 'back' with him but I've gone no contact to get myself back to feeling happy again. We were so happy before we moved in. I'm considering asking him if he'd like to 'start again' rather than 'get back together' but this time, keep it to dating and getting to know each other, rather than rushing into big things like that. What do you think? How would I even bring it up?

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seensome · 22/10/2020 20:34

If you really think it can work and the issues that made you break up can be resolved? Just get in touch and ask him how he is? get the ball rolling then ask if he would like to go out for drink or meal, you can discuss then if you are able to start again.
Was it lockdown? If it was then it was a difficult for most couples being stuck together 24/7

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