I need to leave for my own sanity but just don't feel I have the strength.
Partner is constantly miserable, everything has a negative slant. - "why have you bought that" "too much sugar". We don't do anything together or do anything together. We have a 14 year old son, when we watch films - I don't want to watch that. No consideration that I don't want to watch it either but doing all I can to engage with our son. If I try to engage our son in cooking or baking. He just follows round moaning about the mess. When I say we don't do anything together I mean nothing. No holidays, no days out. Anything I suggest he doesn't want to do it. I just find him to be pretty selfish. I feel that he makes the final descion on everything. I really want a rescue dog but he says no and I just don't know where to go with it. Do I just get on? We split everything 50/50 so the only benefit I have is we live in a nicer house than I could afford on my own. No love in this house atall.
My issue is rent is so expensive where we are. Would you just suck it up and get on with it.
We are in a 5 year mortgage with 10k penalty charge