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Tea123e · 21/10/2020 18:05

I really hate her. Today I was just sat doing something and all the years of anger and hurt just rushed to me. She has deeply hurt me and I just get along with her for he sake if my kids and DH. She really hurt me. I always looked forward to having a loving mother figure in my life and she was yet another disappointment in a long line of disappointments in my life.

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MrsJunglelow · 21/10/2020 18:09

I’m so sorry, you won’t be alone.
My is also awful 💐

MrsJunglelow · 21/10/2020 18:09

*mine

Aquamarine1029 · 21/10/2020 18:09

Where is your husband in all this? Is he aware of her hurting you? What has she done?

AmandaHoldensLips · 21/10/2020 18:11

I'm pretty sure mine's a sociopath.
I don't have anything to do with her and couldn't be less interested.

Pumpertrumper · 21/10/2020 18:12

Are you the same poster whose Mil keeps giving her DD sweets against her wishes? Whose mil would break into her house and take DD from cot as a baby?

If so I’ve literally just come off that thread and whilst I don’t agree with you accepting free childcare if she’s ‘that’ bad, I do totally see why you’d be livid with her and the situation.

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Tea123e · 21/10/2020 18:16

Thank you for your kind wishes everyone Flowers

@Pumpertrumper no that’s not me. My issues with my mil are worse than sweets and childcare unfortunately. I’m sure I’m not the only one that’s posted about her mil on here.

@AmandaHoldensLips lol! I could do with a laugh, please tell me x

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MrsJunglelow · 21/10/2020 18:23

I'm pretty sure mine's a sociopath
Mine too!

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Tea123e · 21/10/2020 18:26

I go through stages of feeling sorry for her d stages like today where I don’t understand why I’ve let her treat me like this all these years. I wish she was a loving and kind person, I really need more kind and nice people in my life right now.

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AmandaHoldensLips · 21/10/2020 18:40

Sadly there's nothing funny about my MIL. There is something deeply not right about her. Must be a trait in the family female line - apparently the grandmother was an evil bitch too.

I knew at the outset of my relationship with DH what she had done and decided she was not a woman I wanted to have anything to do with.

On the rare occasions we have met, it's been polite smile and grey rock.

alexio · 27/10/2020 22:48

@Tea123e I understand my MIL is an absolute horror and unfortunately my husband can't see how she treats and makes me feel

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