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(Unbelievably) Things can always improve

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Bigbundlesofhay · 20/10/2020 22:53

Hello all, wasn't sure if I should post here or in the mental health topic, but I do need to post!

I have been so unwell and suicidal. I've quite frankly had a really hard life, but have tried to be strong. I have been strong! Most/all of my issues have been caused by my family. Extended family.

I've had a few wines (can you tell? 😀) so might not be very eloquent but I've turned a (HUGE) corner and I'm so proud of myself (that's a BIG deal. Historically I've taken the blame for everything that's wrong in the world!)

This isn't completely self indulgent,,,,, just want to say that if I can get to where I am now after so much pain. there's hope for everyone.

I know though, that it's so hard when you reach that dead end. I just never thought I would get to where I am now and want to offer hope to anyone who is desperate.

And also to thank everyone here who has helped me under my different user names. I really had no one else and the kindness from posters is something I'll never forget.

OP posts:
LilyWater · 20/10/2020 23:02

Lovely post OP and it's great hearing a positive story on this board every so often! Glad you've turned a corner and things are improving Smile

Bigbundlesofhay · 20/10/2020 23:21

Thank you Lilywater!

I don't think I explained properly about why I posted in the relationships topic ....my life has been dominated and ruined really by extended family (parents mainly). So I hope I can show to anyone else struggling that things can get better.

I've been so weak and dependant on them for far too long but not anymore. I hope I don't sound preachy or sanctimonious,

OP posts:
SoulofanAggron · 20/10/2020 23:58

Well done OP.

I hope I don't sound preachy or sanctimonious

Not at all, it's inspiring and encouraging xxxx

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