Its been a long time coming. Whilst we both do love each other I need a break and i can't say if its just a break I need or a break up. We have been together 14 years and have 2 children. Our relationship has had more downs then ups. He cheated quite a few years ago and also had a social media relationship with an old school friend. Hes a good dad so the children seeing him will never be a problem and will never be used against him.
My problem is the huge guilt I feel. I feel I'm breaking up our family because I can't be bothered anymore. I need my space or I'm going to crack. I've very much changed since we met and feel we have become friends. I don't want to have sex with him at all and don't miss it and I think he can find someone more suited to him. Does this guilt get better?