Blocked by partner of a year

[veraismyspiritanimal]

We fell out yesterday. I told him how he made me feel upset me- he ranted back acted the victim and has stonewalled me all day. So I sent a messenger message saying I'm sorry I'm having to chase to get the basic decency of being told what's going on and poof blocked. On all platforms.
He's been talking about us moving in together and now all of a sudden I've been stonewalled and blocked within a day
I feel really upset please help

@ThirstyGhost has said it all better than me while I’ve been slowly typing away!

I would be off out cheering myself up but I've had an operation and can't. He knows about this also

Why are you still dwelling on it? He wants a reaction and you're giving it.

Block him, and never contact or get into any sort of communication with him again.

Because I loved him for the best part of a year. And although I know I will be better off without him right now it's murderous. Not so much losing him but realising how little I meant

He sounds like a complete and utter A hole. It’ll hurt for awhile, a year is a fairly long time to be with someone. Understandably it’s going to hurt, he’s treated you very badly and you loved him.

Do not take him back, do not apologise and block him back if you can. It’ll just get worse, if you take him back he’ll know he’s won and that he can treat you like crap and you’ll say sorry and forgive him, chase him and go back for more... and he will love that power.

Jeez what a manchild. Stop dancing to his tune. It’s only been a year when it should be fun and butterflies of excitement. He’s already dragged you to a point of misery. I agree with other PP’s block him everywhere. Don’t even give him an explanation. He doesn’t deserve it and is not emotionally mature enough to handle it . He’s 50 years old. He’s not going change now. Do yourself this huge favour.

I had four years of this with my ex.. It doesn't get better. He once blocked me on everything and walked out on our daughter and I for two weeks.. Still don't know to this day where he stayed. Hence now he's my ex. Do yourself a favour and leave before it gets too far in.. This behaviour never ever changes

oh hes done you aHUGE favour!

he sends you crying pics? oh god thats not ok

block back!!

Also. Stonewalling is emotional abuse. If he's capable of emotional abuse he's capable of physical abuse. I'd leave now before you get to that stage.

He's called me a 'smart bitch' before during an exchange once

He's awful

I just feel lost

He sounds awful. If he's 50 I'll assume you're a similar age and to be honest should know better than to let a man treat you like this.

Sorry you are sad OP - and especially that it is now when you can't get up and out to counter your feelings a bit.

Everyone is right about him - of course- but I don't suppose that helps you much just now.

It sounds as if your feelings are real - like those of a normal loving human being. His feelings sound to have less substance - photos rather than the real thing.

This is the moment to watch films, eat and drink treats, and cuddle up under a soft cover. Be kind to yourself.