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First date - confusing message Or dating anxiety.

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Chairlove · 18/10/2020 12:37

Had a great date last night and not too sure he wants to see me again. He is not the best at texting, does reply, but not much chat. In person he was so different than on text - so chatty and open.

Dating in the covid world is odd at the moment. Matched with a guy OLD in March. Various reasons didn’t meet up then the world went crazy No point dating. We matched again in August. Was suppose to go out, mixed messages no date arranged. I must admit I had been in a few dates with another guy, so didn’t chase it up.

We matched again and I through messages we arranged an impromptu date yesterday afternoon. I was planing on meeting for a drink and leave. Wasn’t to convinced about him, but interested in meeting. He admitted he doesn’t date much and has been single for 5 years and out of practice.

We had a great time. Lasted 5.5 hours. Lots of chat and laughs. He was a really nice guy, lots in common and I did fancy him. We left and he said text me when you get home safe, had a great time It went really quick, can’t believe we were there fir so long, thought it was an hour. I replied great to do it again ad he said yes.

Got home and he texted great time, went so quick. I texted yes it did, sleep well. Texted this morning and he replied. However now gone on dating app and he has unmatched me.

Does this mean he isn’t interested or just unmatched as we met? He didn’t act like he wasn’t interested last night, but hard to gauge as you can’t really flirty touch.

Hate this part of dating. Surely a quick Planned date that lasted that long means he is interested. But the unmatch is odd if he still is interested.

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WatieKatie · 18/10/2020 12:55

I’d wait and see if he messages again. If men like you they text!

There could be a number of reasons why he’s unmatched you. If you get to a second date I’d lightly ask.

AnaViaSalamanca · 18/10/2020 13:30

I may be wrong but I don't think he was ever that interested, probably just bored/curious and had a free night. That's why it's dragged so long. Normally if a guy is excited about you, they would meet you very quickly and they wouldn't be "bad at texting". And more importantly they wouldn't unmatch you, and if they accidentally do it, they would explain.

Icouldstillbejoseph · 18/10/2020 13:32

I used to unmatch people once we swapped numbers because I didn’t see the point of keeping their profile .... maybe that’s it?

DianaT1969 · 18/10/2020 13:36

By unmatching you, does that stop you seeing his activity on the site? Is it so that he can chat to you in real life, but you don't see he's online on the app?

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