Yesterday I collected DS from school he was feeling run down, was sniffy and had a temperature. I kept an eye on him, checked his temperature etc. Just before dinner he started vomiting a lot just water and phlegm (sorry for all the details). He was coughing and had a high temperature by then.
Husband was going out (he had told me previously with 2 guys from work). Nothing important just a couple of people he knows well. I asked him to stay at home in case we needed to take our son to the hospital.
He was sharp and said you have a car parked outside you can take him yourself. He did not hang around just told our son he would be back in one hour.
I had a difficult night with our son coughing, running a temperature and restless all night. I slept with him to look after him and comfort him.
Husband left at 5.30pm and did not get back until midnight. We live overseas and he had gone only 20mins away to a hotel/bar.
In the morning I found a message from a woman at work on his phone saying "Of course X I wish you stayed longer... " I had gone to mute his phone so he could sleep. All other messages between them had been deleted. I was raging when I saw the message in the morning.
I said to him in the afternoon we needed to talk. He said what about. I said to him he told me he was going to see these 2 guys and what was going on with Helen. He started shouting at me straight away saying what can he do if she was there as well .. He kept shouting why was I whining about it and that was the end of the conversation. It was not a long exchange. I did not say anything as our son was lying on the couch in the living room and he had been running a high temperature all day. My priority is our son and making sure he get better. He gets aggressive and shouts at me if he wants to bully me.
What would you do? We live overseas and I have no family support where we are and very few friends I am comfortable talking to.