Talking with my ddil today and she was saying my stbxh was on dating sites and talking to some women from America she knows this because he has shown her ,she has told him to be careful as lots of it looks like scammers .
He was with my youngest son and was going to give a lift to my ohs ex wife but my son said no she would see it as a way in and bleed him dry (she has done this with my oh and we are still paying the bills for it ) .
He has also started talking to a woman from some refuge flats she has told him all about her boyfriend (not exboyfriend) said he is nasty and violent and is always wanting and taking money from her , his first wife was from a women's refuge and took him for a ride money and house wise so I don't want to see him going through the same thing again
No I'm not jealous he is talking to women but I do worry that they see he is in a big four bedroomed house with a 20 plate car and always has money on him and that's all they are actually interested in as he can be soft and want to do his best to help if he can .
Like I say I'm not jealous I'm happy where I am and who I'm with but I don't want to see him get hurt or used ,as it is the house isn't his ,the car isn't his and the money is from benefits that my son gets so in all reality he has none of them but to the outside he looks well off ,do I say something and risk him thinking I'm jealous or not wanting him to be happy or do I keep quiet and hope he sees what could happen if he persues things , any advice would be great