A friend of mine suddenly initiated sexting with me and I obviously joined in. It quickly turned into nightly lustful frolicking. It was great and intense. I had to ask if he was in to me but he said no. We continued even after i called it off as he pursued me just as friends but we then went back for more. He started saying things like i miss you and i wish i could cuddle up with you and fall asleep (me usually saying it first though) and hed ask if there was room in the bed for him for cuddles. Then he said there felt like a strong connection. So i pushed further for whether he had feelings. He said he still had feelings for his ex. I blocked him again but he pursued me again. I said i can't be sexual with someone who is not interested in me but just wants sex and is still in love with an ex. He told me he saw his ex and she told him she wasn't interested. He then said to me, that between me and him "you never know!" He agreed to bsck off fron sexting and we continued our close talking morning noon and night. Then one day he said he couldn't grt into a relationship with anyone as he didn't want to grt hurt. So i got angry and told him he was using me and hurting me. He has now blocked me and our friendship is lost. I am also online dating and grt no end of men wanting 'fun' - is this how things are these days or am I doing something wrong?
Confidence in men is all time low now!
P xx