How much do you speak between dates?

[Dorkuss]

I went out with someone recently for the first time. We discussed meeting again and he definitely seemed up for it at the time. We've not spoken about it since though. We've had a couple of messages back and forth, but nothing flirty. Just kind of day to day stuff. Now the conversation has fizzled out. I feel really unsure about the whole thing and like I am initiating the messaging each time.

I should just leave it and see if he contacts me shouldn't I?

I found if on a date and keen would arrange a specific date/activity rather than generic we will meet up again. Did you discuss what date you would go on next time?

No not really. There was quite an abrupt end to it for transport reasons.

You’re initiating all the messages and he hasn’t set a concrete date yet... I say he’s just not that interested.

Anytime I’ve just started dating a guy if he’s truly interested there are at least steady texting going on and they initiate them at least half of the time.

And the contact was usually every other day on average after the first date. but most of the time it was usually daily.

Yeah, that's my thinking :(

I’d just leave it with this guy. At Least you’re not emotionally invested. Move on and find someone who wants to chase you xx