Why are crushes so painful. Tips please.

[Leahxstar]

I've had a crush for just over a month now. It is soooo hard and just when I think I'm getting over him It all comes back.

I am pretty sure he likes me too. But he hasn't even given me his number. He's always with his work friends when I see him. So I think he isn't going to approach me anyway. There's no way I can bring myself to go chat him up Infront of people either.

So I'm trying to find a way to grow and move on. But it's hurting and sucks big time.

Anyone got any amazing tips on getting over someone fast.

I heavily was relying on him to come slip his number in my hand and it hasn't happened.

Why would you try to get over it without giving it a bash? Try catch him on his own at some point and ask him out. You only live once.

Or could suggest a work night out to your colleagues and invite him to that?

Maybe he's waiting for you to make a move, men sometimes don't approach a girl they like purely out of fear of rejection or fear of looking like a creepy. You might regret it if you don't give it a go so why not!!

It’s only been just over a month. Seems a bit soon to throw in the towel if you’re really interested. Agree with PP - why don’t you suggest a coffee or sth? Or slip your number into his hand?

I don't understand why you haven't asked him yourself. Most people don't approach in real life, we've all become accustomed to OLD. But someone has to make the first move. Or maybe he's 8n a relationship. Maybe you're just reading too much into him being friendly. Either way you won't know unless you ask. What's the worst that can happen?