Last year I met a guy through friends . He was messaging via social media . We had a few coffees and he seemed like a nice guy . It escalated a bit and he bought me chocolates to my house and we went for a date . We slept together and kept meeting up . He wanted to ‘take it slow’( and other non committal nonsense). I thought it may go somewhere. In the end he let me down for a meet up and I just told him to get stuffed.
Looking back , this was a causal relationship and he had no feelings for me .
He text me out of the blue saying he was sorry that he just treated me casually as he knew I wanted a relationship. He said he took advantage of me.He texts me every week or so, I usually just blank it and give it zero thought. Sometimes he texts me rubbish like ‘you are beautiful and special to me’.
He seems to really enjoy that he hurt me and he has admitted he is a manipulative person. He seems to really enjoy down playing what we had saying he’s not been on a date in years and he would love to meet someone. He’s said what we had was not official and a bit of fun .
I’ve blocked him now . Is he a narcissist ? I’m so angry I have indulged this person .