Something casual, what changed?

[alittlebitofbreadandnocheese]

I met a guy through a hookup site and it was a casual type arrangement, both single but both just looking for sex.
At first it was all about the sex stuff, lots of sexting, photos etc and then came lockdown. So we have only been able to meet for coffee and keep in touch via text most of the time and planning on getting together when situation changes with Covid.
But his messages seem to have changed. They are not 'sexy' anymore. What could be going on? I'm sure he likes me and we get on really well so why have things changed?

No one on here will know the answer.

Have you tried asking him?

I've enjoyed a casual arrangement before, but going for a coffee didn't feature in it. Dinner and drinks maybe, but not a coffee knowing sex wasn't on the agenda at the end of it. That could just be me and the setup I had though.

It's great that you get on. If you've slept together though and been intimate it shouldn't be too hard to reassess the situation together and both make sure you're still on the same page?

If he likes you and you get on well, couldnt it just be that he wants something more than casual? In a FWB situation, honesty and clarity is key. Ask him if he is feeling differently and act accordingly... if you don't want things to change tell him that, if you're open to him tell him that. If a FWB situation has become solely non sexual in your messaging and meetings then it's not 'just' FWB anymore.