C100 Form received by ex

[Ihaveanidea33]

Hi MNetters.
I've posted previously before, I left a very abusive relationship a few months ago with Social Services intervention. Have received threats from my ex partners Solicitor regarding contact and our DD whilst NMO is in place.
Today I have received my ex's C100 Form.
I'm devastated to say the least.
I am apparently the violent, mentally abusive one and I have abused our daughter he is saying.
He has asked for an urgent hearing in the next 7 days.
Can anyone offer advice and help me stay calm/handhold!
Thanks

No advice, but bumping because surely someone will have advice.

Good luck, OP

cafcass will need to do meetings with you both

my advice is to be very amenable, don't try to block this. judges appreciate adults being adults and it will benefit your cafcass report

behind the scenes be honest about all that happened....have a think and write it all down in a timeline. ss will also have their records to help

how old is dc?

Well if he is correct ss will have it all documented then won't they.?
Not...
Don't worry op he is as transparent as a window...

Social services will know this is a pack of lies, please try not to worry. I think I remember your last post, you have so much evidence against him.

Is this the solicitor who's also a bully? Did your ex call your solicitor in the last thread?

I suggest you seek legal advice.

yes get a solicitor. If you have a NMO in place and meet the financial requirements then you may get legal aid.

CAFCASS will speak with you both before the first hearing. They are well used to allegations and cross allegaitons and have access to police records etc so truth will out.

Be open, cooperative and honest. Just because he got in first does not give him an advantage in the proceedings. The courts are also well used to abusive partners using the court process as an extension of the abuse. If that is what he is doing it will become apparent.

Hi all -

I've posted this in Legal as I think it's more relevant, if you can reply there, I'd really appreciate all the advice I can get as I will probably have a hearing in the next 2 weeks.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/legal_matters/4044458-C100-Form-received-by-violent-ex-partner
Thread is here:

Your last two threads got taken down. Did Mumsnet tell you why?

oh? why?

Can't say if you pursue for answers this thread will be taken down too as I've asked MN to monitor it. Can you please reply on legal matters going forward. Thanks.