I have an 11 month old son, 2 weeks ago i sensed my now ex has been off with me, distant, when hugging me stiff no affection, only getting close to me once a week when he wanted sex & constantly on his phone. He said hes always on his phone as its to do with work but to be honest i wasn't buying it. Last week after taking our son to the doctors he hadnt really said two words to me. As we were walking in the front door our new neighbour who is beautiful & blonde her dog came running over & in those two minutes he spent making conversation she had more chat out of him then i did all day. So that night i went to bed early as he was on his phone again & when he followed me up & got comfy in bed about to put on a series, i asked him “Are you happy?” There was a huge pause & he looked away starring at the wall. So i sat up & said im not happy & i haven't been for a long time. He told me we had nothing in common anymore, he only proposed to me a month ago acting on impulse as his words were. He told me hes not a family man & knows now he will never get married. I was taking back but i had my answers in his answers. I didnt say nothing else just asked him to be gone in the morning. What i wanted to say was this is your 3rd child & i am your 3rd baby mother & only now you have realised your not a family man? But i never because whats the point. Im so hurt i spent 6 years with him gave him everything & a child, he didnt help me with our son hence i was to tired to have sex & not just that if i dont feel love from him why would i have sex with him. I dont know the point in my post, im just angry & upset that he walked out with no hesitation, not even a second glance back , no fire in his stomach to fight for us