Ex partner's comment

[HUGS65]

My partner of 16 years cheated on me during lock down when i found out i told him to leave. He continues to see her some 5 weeks later. She lives around the corner from me and he saidif ypu see us out walking i hope you will wave . What a cheek. How would you react if you saw them

I’d ignore them. Maintain your dignity.

He's trying to wind you up - ignore him (and her)

I'd ignore them. Don't let him (or her) try and provoke you into lowering yourself to his pathetic level.

Keep your head held high. His is insignificant. Concentrate on you and you happiness!

*He is insignificant

Do you have DC together? That’s the only reason I can think of that would warrant civility. Ignore him and pity her

'I'll wave. I'll probably have my shopping though so will have to wave with one finger'.

Thank you for your comments made me smile. No children apart from legal matters and his stuff in loft. He keeps saying he wants to be friends but he has?hurt me too much

Yeh sack that, he wants to be friends so he can play you and this other woman off against eachother. All about his ego.

That's not a friend, it's a wanker.

Drop his stuff on her doorstep and block all contact.

@HUGS65

Thank you for your comments made me smile. No children apart from legal matters and his stuff in loft. He keeps saying he wants to be friends but he has?hurt me too much

No kids?! Go no contact! Legal stuff do through a solicitor and box up his attic stuff for him to collect from a third party. Please don't allow him the opportunity to take up any more headspace than is necessary

I'd wave .. with one finger.

I'd ignore them, if he tries to speak just grey rock him.

What a wanker! Yes I'd wave, my middle finger!

I'd tell you I'd ignore them, but honestly I'm a hot head and would probably end up decking him. Take the high road, and if you see them just continue about your day. Don't let them him see you sweat.

'Well, you'd be disappointed then, wouldn't you, ex? People what the likes of you have shown yourself to be aren't the likes I wish to be seen associating myself with'. . .

@bunnymumy that tickled me lol 🤣😂

Keep your head high and your dignity in tact. And call him a massive cunt behind his back.

The stuff in your loft....box it up and leave it in her front garden.

Smile, wave & wish her luck!

Have a read of chumplady.

She calls it eating cake (I think)

Give him a date to collect the stuff by otherwise it gets dumped outside the girlfriends.
Once you have got rid of it get him blocked on everything.
If you see them just ignore.

Oh I’d wave - with 2 out of 5 digits !

After 16 years and he wants to remain friends ??? Seriously ???

I'd be tempted to stop him as he waved merrily with the new girlfriend and say you tested positive for a STI and as you haven't had sex with anyone apart from him he should get tested and figure out where he caught it.

I would wave very cheerily and go over and politely decline his offer of friendship and request that he remove his items from your loft within 7 days.

He isn’t interested in your pain but he will be irked by you appearing to be over him.