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Can’t shake this feeling?

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AmyFarrafowler · 04/10/2020 20:11

Split up with ex boyfriend about 2 months ago. We were only together 6 months so it wasn’t a long relationship. I can’t get over this feeling that I really need to talk to him.

I’ve tried to think of all the things I don’t like about him. I’ve tried talking to new people on dating apps. I don’t let myself think about him that much. But every few days I just get this really strong feeling that I need to talk to him. It’s like a physical feeling in my chest rather than just a thought, if that makes sense. How can I stop myself feeling like this?

OP posts:
Cantmakeupmind · 04/10/2020 23:13

It will just go away with time op, heartbreaks sucks no matter how long you were together. Unfortunately there is no magic cure. What was the reason for the breakup?

LondonCrone · 05/10/2020 12:10

This may be an unpopular opinion, but I believe in taking courage -- if the relationship wasn't abusive and after two months you still have strong feelings for him, I think there's nothing wrong with dropping him a text to see how he's doing.

seensome · 05/10/2020 13:09

Contact him, in worse case it might help closure or maybe you could work out what went wrong and see him again.

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