Stuffed it up

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I liked a guy from afar for a few years and he asked me on a date . It went well but I was too needy / clingy after asking him for another date and he told me he was not looking for anything . I was quite gutted at the time .
I’ve just seen his dating profile on tinder a few months on and says he is looking for something seriousI feel quite gutted. I know I have no right to feel this.

I wish I had at least kept my dignity even though he was probably never interested . Has anyone stuffed it up with a love interest ? I feel so silly for liking him for all that time .

You were more into him than he was into you, it happens. Just means you weren't the right fit. Saying you don't want something serious is sometimes true but also sometimes someone letting you down gently. So he didn't want something serious with you, as he didn't think you were a good match. So you weren't a good match. Onwards and upwards, time to move on from giving it headspace though.