Feel so low and teary

[Willowmartha1]

Had a lovely date last night with someone I have been meeting up with since before lockdown, he lives thirty mins away and he came to me as my daughter was at a sleepover. We had such a lovely night but when he left this morning he didn't mention meeting up again, I told him to drive carefully and let me know when he's home - he hasn't, although he has been on WhatsApp. I can't help feeling I'm not going to see him again and I'm gutted, my daughter has just got back and I feel like locking myself away and having a good cry ! I wasn't looking for anyone when we met back in February, it came out the blue but I really like him even more so now. Hate feeling like this anyone out there in same boat for a hand hold ??

Was it the first time you shagged?

Sadly this was going to be my first question too.

How much did you drink?

I don't think not texting on the same day is a red flag is it the first time you slept together?
Maybe he's busy and will text later or tomoz I'm well confused

Try not to be too upset - it's the oxytocin bonding hormone, not love, and a bit of a post-coital crash.

If he doesn't want to see you again, it's his loss.

@category12 no we haven't done the deed yet he has problems in that area so it's not that that's making me feel rubbish !!

@ZiggyStarburst yes lots both hungover this morning

What's making you feel rubbish? He came over he went home it hasn't even been 12hrs and your worried he doesn't want to see you again just because he didn't mention meeting up. Did you ask him to meet up again?

Oh you've got the beer fear then.

Honestly - this is booze and chemicals

Absolutely spot on. Alcohol does this. Hormones too. Try not to check your phone and watch a film with your daughter. I tie myself up in self destructive knots when my gf doesn't contact me and we have been together a while. It's my self destruct button. Just try and be cool

Message him if you are worried? That’s what I would do. Not a mental one, just say, thanks for a great evening, have a nice day, something like that? He might be feeling just like you and not be sure if you want to meet again either.....

Def beer fear ... I bet if you hadn't drunk anything last night you wouldn't be stressing over this.

What happened op? Did you get a text in the end?

@lonerrrrrr yes he did the same night and next day and today, no mention of meeting up again though !