just constantly getting rejected / unimportant friend

[lonerrrrrr]

Hi guys

So I just keep getting rejected and it seems no one ever wants to see me and I'm completely unimportant.
I've been broken up with recently and thought I had a good support system around me but I actually don't. I now live on my own and I'm really struggling.

I just want a fun weekend, go out for a few drinks with friends and forget things for a while but I just keep being rejected
A) I asked one friend if we can go out as I really need a good time and a good dress up but she said she can't be bothered (even though she goes out with friends and drinks all the time) and would rather just get a coffee
B) another girl I asked said she has a lot of work to do this weekend and can't really be bothered to go out
C) asked 2 other friends, one simply said he can't be bothered and one isn't even replying to me at all

I just feel like I've got no one at the moment, no one even wants to meet up let alone initiate anything themselves. I just need a bit of picking up and a bit of fun after a hard few weeks but no one is even bothered and I'm being rejected left right and centre ☹️

Going out is a faff these days, and there's a risk of being asked to self isolate for 14 days when there's absolutely nothing wrong with you. It's less enticing than it used to be, and there are other ways to socialise, remotely.

We all need to adjust our expectations.

Don't take it personally, OP. If you say no to a friend, do you think they sit at home, miserably thinking about how you rejected them? Or do you think they simply find something else to do?

Where are you based?