Been with OH for 9 years have a DD who was 7 4 years ago he was acting strangely for months, he said he was depressed and I was taking him to doctors appointments. Two days into the holiday which I had paid half for he told me i was fat and unattractive and he was really tempted to sleep with a lady at work who was flirting with him I was devastated and wanted to fly home but OH refused saying it was too expensive and just enjoy myself. I was heart broken my OH who I thought I could rely on turned into someone I did not recognise.
I was undergoing tests as I was unwell and unable to work it took a while to be diagnosed, he asked me and DD to leave the home and I moved into a horrible council flat. Poorly and alone, I was eventually diagnosed and started treatment I've been in employment for 4 years a good job I feel great, lost weight, have savings and feel amazing.
Around 3 years ago OH asked me to come back to the house put my name on the deeds and start over again around
I always think he just wants me when I'm at my best but at the worst point he couldn't be there for me.
It's been years and I'm still not over it, I'm wondering whether I will ever get over it or if really I'm just holding onto a relationship that should have died.
Has anyone got over a massive betrayal?