Hello everyone, this is my first post so hope I will get it right. I am having a very hard time with my FIL who has criticised my housekeeping (said no cleaner would take my house on), said when the house flooded, "I expect you wish you'd never bought it" (DH moved in with me before we got married so I own it although obviously now both of ours) accused me of being disorganised (which I am not, just a bit of a mess) and now he has asked about what we are planning for the birth and I said we were down for the midwifery unit and he gave me a lecture on how I'd regret it if anything went wrong and I should be somewhere there are doctors (he's a retired doctor) and shouldn't listen to the midwife who is biased etc. He does all this when DH is doing something else as he knows DH would tell him to leave it alone. I am now at the end of my tether (also vomiting about 7 times a day and continually nauseous which isn't helping). Worried about sorting this out now as otherwise think will get lectures on being a bad mother next. He also has lots of good qualities so want to work it out somehow but am worried I will just lose my temper and that'll be it as I've been bottling it for so long. What should I do?