I’ve decide its time to separate.
The final straw was being told to ignore a call from nursery to say dc is unwell, or if I answered look after him by myself because he’s too busy, even though we were both wfh. I stick up for myself and I’m told I’m ruining their lives. But its been years of this sort of thing - putting himself first.
So this is it. But what happens now. I want to stay in the house with dc. I could potentially buy him out. I don’t imagine he’ll leave voluntarily though.
Anyone able to advise on what will happen now. I’m making an appointment with a solicitor. How long will a divorce take? Do I have to wait until then to get where we will live and how we will split care of dc?
TIA