Over the last year, my DH has had some odd behaviours. Some of you have commented on my posts and it was helpful to me.
One thing I hadn’t mentioned was that sex has dwindled between us. Now, we have both always been very compatible in this area as we both have a big sex drive, I still find him attractive despite the various problems we have had and he tells me he still finds me attractive.
If I initiate sex then he is very keen and it’s great, however, I have stopped initiating it lately because he never takes the initiative any more. He says I never want it! How would he know? I overheard him telling his friends that he never gets sex nowadays and although I didn’t say anything (he loses his temper with me when I question his behaviour) I was livid as I think that is a private matter between my DH and me. Then I overheard his friend’s DW say that he would just have to go down the infidelity route!! I just don’t know what’s going in with him anymore! 🤔😢