Meeting DP's DC for the first time. Help

[kat287]

DP and I have been together for 5 months and we're ready for me to meet his DC next month. She is only 3 years 6 months. I'm nervous as I hope she likes me. I'm not usually around kids so I have no idea what to do. Has anyone got any tips ? Should I bring a toy?

@kat287 I don't have step kids, but is there anything she enjoys? Either a hobby or a specific interest- Disney, trains, butterflies etc etc. You could get her something related to these interests, or if nothing then a generic small toy for her to play with - but as long as you're friendly and pay a bit of attention to her, all should go well! Best of luck :) xx

Don't flirt with her dad in front of her. But she's really young so she may not recognize that you're anything other than another lady...

Just sit and play with her. Don't be to over familiar with her father in front of her. Just be a friend.

ask her about her life -
preschool, any hobbies, what she likes

probably better to do this while playing board games - won't feel quite like an inquisition for her then

a present would be nice, but might set an expectation - maybe better to buy a game you can all play together (uno, or something not too complicated)

Do you intend this relationship to be for keeps because I think it's a little early for him to be introducing her to you - you barely know him

@UnfinishedSymphon

Do you intend this relationship to be for keeps because I think it's a little early for him to be introducing her to you - you barely know him

She might have known him longer / they both have intentions of a serious relationship though!

@UnfinishedSymphon

Do you intend this relationship to be for keeps because I think it's a little early for him to be introducing her to you - you barely know him

Definitely serious about the relationship. DC mother is happy for it to happen as DP parents have met me and happy to go ahead.

Best of luck @kat287, hope all goes well! x