I've been having issues with my (now ex) bf for a while. A whole lot of little things added up, some of them largely due to his depression/anxiety.
I sent him some texts a few days ago to tell him that I was ending it, Not the way I wanted to go about it but I felt I had no choice since he won't engage with me. He has form for ignoring me for days on end, which is part of why I've ended the relationship.
I'm just getting a bit worried now because I have had no communication from him at all for almost a week, not a single word, no response to the break up texts, nothing. I am twisting myself in knots thinking maybe he has harmed himself (he has talked about this in the past). I feel so guilty. I've even sent his sister, who lives in the same house, a message to ask if he is alright but she hasn't even seen it yet and is also not great at responding.
At the same time I'm wondering if he has seen the texts and just doesn't want to talk to me. What should I do? Keep messaging and make sure he's ok? Or just leave him alone and let him get in touch? I feel like I've been ghosted 😞
He has left quite a lot of his stuff at my place, not to mention his cat which I am still feeding and looking after which I cannot continue to do once I go back to work next week. There's no rush for him to collect his other stuff, I mostly want to make sure he is alright. What do I do?