I’ve got a fucking crush

[BuggeredItUpAgain]

And it’s doing my bloody head in! I’ve got too much to do to spend every spare minute thinking about this guy shagging me.

I’m going through a divorce after a long, sexless marriage. I’ve met a lovely man but he lives 2 hours away so obviously not going to work long term. We’ve met a few times, last time I saw him we had sex and now all I can think about is shagging him again.

Ffs. I’m a mother in my mid 30’s and I’m mooning around like a sodding teenager. I was supposed to be seeing him this weekend and now I’m thinking I won’t be able to if they make lockdown stricter.

I’ve had a cold shower. I’ve had a wank. I’ve tried to do a thousand things to distract myself and I bloody can’t. Any suggestions? How long until this goes away?

The longer you keep on seeing this guy, the worse it will get (unless you realise he's a to$$er and go off him). So stop talking to him and move on now. It will be easier and quicker to forget about him. My 2 cents.

Does it need to be long term? Nothing wrong with having fun!

No, it doesn’t need to be long term at all and no intention of it be so either. I just need to shag him to the point that I don’t want to shag him anymore and that’s difficult when he’s 2 hours away.

No suggestions to stop you crushing but try seeing if you can channel that energy into hacking through that to-do list. They say the frustrated male sexual drive of the Victorians fuelled the Industrial Revolution as much as coal did. Imagine the domestic achievements you could tick off with your raging horn.

Its not a crush if you are shagging him and he likes you back! A crush is one sided and rarely comes to anything. Believe me, I know

Your post is funny as fuck op.

Your obsessing cause you can't shag him.

It will pass.

That's not a crush really if you've both had sex

What is it then, a slightly creepy obsession? Whatever it is I’d like it to go away, it’s fucking irritating.

Sounds like you are into him? If he is the same what's the problem

There’s no real problem except that I can’t stop thinking about shagging him and I’m trying to concentrate on doing work.

Been there OP but without the actual shagging! Drove me bananas and in then end I just had to wait for it go away. There was a lot of self love. A. Lot.

You have an itch and you have found someone to scratch it. Women have needs. The only problem here is that you appear to be making a big deal over just 2 hours. Many people have been in long term long distance friendships. And if you meet half way that’s one hour. 2 hours is not long distance.

You like him, the sex sounds good, you say you don’t want long term, where’s the problem?

That's not a crush. I have a crush on my son's old teacher. Or the postman.
Neither are going to shag me.

It’s not just a crush if you’re shagging him.

Just carry on!

Two Cures for Love

1. Don't see him. Don't call, don't write a letter.
2. The easy way: get to know him better.

(Wendy Cope)

I love your post! Just take it for what it is and don't worry. I'm sure you'll see him again if you both want to.