I broke up with my ex bf earlier on this year after a nearly 8 year relationship. At the time I felt like this was for the right reasons as I felt that we had drifted irrevocably apart but more and more I find myself missing him and thinking about him, wondering if he has been on many dates yet or even possibly met somebody new. I downloaded Tinder about a month ago as I felt that I owed it to myself to at least try and move on by meeting new people, and I’ve been speaking to a man on there who seems really nice. We are meant to be meeting this weekend (pandemic permitting) but I feel unsure. Although I haven’t seen my ex in months or been in contact with him at all I still feel very much ‘in a relationship’ emotionally and as though - I know this might sound strange - I would somehow be cheating on him if I met someone else for a drink. This even though he explicitly encouraged me before we parted to try and meet somebody myself. Is it fair to meet this other man while my head is like this? The trouble is I think I will feel this way until I actually meet somebody else, so it’s a bit of a catch 22 