Reconciled

[Thatgirlcat]

Hi everyone,

I previously told my mum and brother I was thinking about leaving my husband. We have since reconciled, but I feel really stupid going back and telling them this. Is there a way I can tell them without sounding immature? Thanks in advance

I don't think it sounds immature, just say you both feel the relationship is worth saving and giving it another go. I surpose some of will be down to the reason for splitting in the first place if they support the decision but it's your happiness at the end of the day.

I agree with PP it depends on the issue, but relationships are tough. They will think you’re mature if anything, that you are grown up enough to work things through.

My only concern is that prior to this l, in the past I have also said I was thinking about leaving. I'm dealing with some mental health issues, which I think is the main problem and I don't want my whole family thinking I'm a liar or something. I did feel like I honestly wanted to leave, but I think I was the main problem not him. I just don't want to come across to my family like I'm a complete butter or something

*nutter not butter