I changed careers a year ago and started a course where I met a man. We got on well on the course. When the course finished this summer out of the blue he messaged me asking to catch up and go for a walk. We have done this a few times now and had some wonderful times. I get the feeling from some of the things he says is that he likes me romantically but is taking his time to get to know me.
He has started his second year of his career on a different course and I am doing my second year elsewhere. He has confided in me saying it is quite an intense course as it is full time and just about managing his workload. I would never want to get in the way of a man's career/goals.
I know he is busy studying, catching up with his friends and playing tennis. My friend has seen him on POF which he is entitled to do as he is single so I know he is looking elsewhere. I'm getting to the point now where I am thinking I may need to move on.
I know there will probably be a conversation that we are interested in each other but he has never asked me out for a drink or meal but does these things with his friends so the virus doesn't put me off. I don't see how walks are considered as dates. I don't want to waste time holding out for something that may never happen.
I have a dormant account on eharmony, a guy on there has got in touch and I am curious about renewing my membership and contacting him. I just feel I can't put my life on hold when there are others who are willing to make more time.
I don't want to be an afterthought for a guy who wants to meet for a walk for a few hours on a Sunday every fortnight.