Narcissistic men.

[Puppy72]

Why is it.. When you end a relationship with someone who is quite clearly a narcissistic, they have the temerity to then call YOU the narcissist.. I've just received a delightful email from my ex saying I'm a narcissistic and I have BPD and I need help... I mean, are they just so painfully deluded they believe their own disgusting lies and inflated sense of self importance, I want to laugh!

I'm fortunate that I'm extremely resilient and that I've been through nursing a parent through a terminal illness right down to the final moment.. In comparison to that.. Dealing with a narcissistic ex was just a drop in the ocean. My daily reminder to not sit about feeling depressed and defeated is my daughter.. I've never seen such a resilience, adaptable, strong, happy, courageous little girl in all my life.. I'm proud to call her my own and she's just utterly brilliant and a reflection of me. So my narcissist ex and unfortunately her father can drop dead for all I care, we don't need him and one day she'll see that and hopefully be thankful I raised her alone rather than resent me for him not being part of her life. The way in which I see it is.. These men have a choice. To be decent human beings or to abuse us. They chose abuse. Nobody made them do it, they are accountable for their own actions.. I will refuse to own his guilt for the way in which is life is now. They deserve everything they get.