Would you meet a man who was commenting and liking girls photos?

[Jem19923]

Hi MN
I’ve been talking to a man online for a good couple months now, we have seen each other in real life at the shops but never spoke, we then stumbled across each other on a dating website.

He is following a ton of half naked women on Instagram and likes / comments on their photos while he’s been messaging me. Says we should meet but then nothing comes of it. So I went on a date with another man recently and took my attention of previous man. He has now messaged me asking where I had been and if I had met someone. What should I say?

None of his business. Leave him to his fantasy world.

Says we should meet but then nothing comes of it

Sounds like he can't cope with women in real life.

I would tell him yes! You’re not his GF, just someone he’s been chatting to. You are free to do as you please. If it bothers him and he wants exclusivity then he needs to step forward. However he sounds very immature to me. Drooling over semi naked pictures and commenting won’t stop if you become an item. Is that what you want in man/ that wouldn’t work for me.

No, i would not.
Our morals and world views are too, too far apart.

Sounds like miserable times in the future.

Personally I would have ghosted him as soon as a discovered he was mooning over girls on social media. I just couldn't respect someone who did that.

Yuk.
Forget him.

No, he’s an absolute time waster, move on and forget. Men who moon over Instagram ‘models’ have the emotional abilities of a teenage boy.

Red flag.
F- him off quickly
Leave him on the shelf where he belongs!

I would find him sleazy and not be interested.

He is literally nothing to you. Why are you worried about what you should say to him? Say nothing or say it's none of his business or say sorry, who are you? Whatever you do or don't say though, find your self-worth because the fact you are remotely worried about how to respond to this non-catch of a man suggests you don't value yourself.

Nope.
Creepy. And only interested when it looked like someone else might steal you away. Probably a nutter. Avoid.

Anyone who considers that a constructive use if their time is waaaaay to thirty for my taste.

No I would think he was a very sad individual tbh.

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