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HE'S WALKED OUT ON ME, OUR SON AND UNBORN CHILD - BECAUSE I WONT HAVE SEX HIS WAY

16 replies

AnonaMouse · 07/10/2007 20:08

So so so angry. not even sad just fuming that i have been duped into thinking he was someone else.

I posted a while ago that our sex life made me unhappy and got good advice - i put a stop to having sex how he wanted. now he's left.

He left (preplanned apparantly) on friday. we were supposed to be going shopping for cot etc on saturday.

Dont even think i need advice (me and ds are staying with my fabulous friend who is taking great care of us), just wanted to announce that he is a bastard

OP posts:
indiasmum · 07/10/2007 20:11

hi anonamouse, couldnt let you go unanswered. what a git. so and for you and your little ds.
{{{{hugs}}}}}

MyTwopenceworth · 07/10/2007 20:12

What a twat. You are well rid. I hope his knob drops off.

ThePhantomToiletFlusher · 07/10/2007 20:12

Yes, what a shit.

pooka · 07/10/2007 20:13

Good god. What a twat.

I really did not think that this would happen, having seen your previous thread where it sounded like you had talked and were dealing with the sex-issue together.

Really sorry. And really angry.

moondog · 07/10/2007 20:13

Er,what way did he want you to have sex then?

themoon66 · 07/10/2007 20:16

I missed your other thread. He sounds like a complete arse who is out of touch with reality.

Dior · 07/10/2007 20:17

Message withdrawn

curseofthemummylin · 07/10/2007 20:31

hope hisknob shrivels,withers,and drops off.

morningpaper · 07/10/2007 20:34

oh I'm so so sorry

I saw your other thread

I am so sorry

I really feel for you

Keep talking here if you want to - there is always someone around to lend a listening ear xxx

fairyjay · 07/10/2007 20:36

Take care of yourself - and stuff him!

wurlywoo · 07/10/2007 20:36

Didnt see your other thread but sounds as though you are well rid, and I thought I had a selfish partner. I am so so sorry that you have to go through this!

I hope that in time your pain eases, probably best to stay angry, god what an absolute twat, he doesnt deserve you anyway.

duke748 · 07/10/2007 20:41

I know it doesn't feel like it right now but you know he wasn't right for you and it as arse/wanker/barstard/insert appropiate expletive!

For some light relief try looking at 'A Date with Sarah Beeny: Mysinglefriend.com's Guide to Dating and Dumping, Flirting and Flings'. I read it after becoming single again after 4 years in a relationship. It made me laugh and me sooooooo glad not to be in that stupid relationship!

Hugs and support from us all on MN.

PeachyFleshCrawlingWithBugs · 07/10/2007 20:44

Sympathies for being duped but Goodness what a lucky escape! And well done your friend- sounds like a good mate to me!

Elizabetth · 07/10/2007 20:49

What a creep. Putting his sex life (or I'm guessing his desire to use you in some kind of nasty way) before his family.

You are well rid. Good luck to you and your children.

milou2 · 07/10/2007 20:51

i'm really relieved for you. I hope you are able to feel how different it is being with a friend instead of the situation you were in before.

I saw your previous thread and didn't know what to say.

You are so brave to have stopped doing something which upset you.

Best wishes

OverRated · 07/10/2007 21:05
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