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Where can someone, who doesn’t want to have sex, start to look for an relationship?

30 replies

WellThisWentWell · 06/09/2020 18:59

So yeah, that’s me.
Tinders and bars are out, and it’s not like i can go and say to a person ”hey, not interested in sex, want to go out on a date”.

Loneliness is really getting to me, so i thought i start doing something about it, before bitterness takes over...

OP posts:
WellThisWentWell · 06/09/2020 21:10

”Oh, and if you are demi, then there is also subreddit for you specially, suprisingly named demisexuality smile
I was wondering if people discussed asexuality on mumsnet, sorry if my message was misunderstood. I don't really like reddit but thanks. Oh there's a subreddit for me? and it's suprisingly named? Patronising much!”

-Okey, that took a turn...
It really wasn’t meant to offend you.
I’m sorry.

But, no there isin’t much talking about asexuality on MN.

OP posts:
MoonSauce · 06/09/2020 21:13

I have asexual friends. I married an asexual man. My current partner appears to be asexual. I feel like an asexual magnet.

My dream would be to share a home with a few close asexual friends and show our mutual platonic love through platonic romantic gestures, share cuddles which lead nowhere, always have someone to talk to with no strings attached.

WellThisWentWell · 06/09/2020 21:22

@MoonSauce

That sound amazing!
Dream life right there!!

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wobblywinelover · 06/09/2020 22:02

apology accepted @WellThisWentWell

wishfuldreamer · 06/09/2020 23:25

I’m OK Cupid you can set your orientation to asexual, and you can filter similarly. I imagine it might narrow the options for you somewhat, but you might find another asexual guy that way. I think for a wider net outside of other ACE folks, as someone else said earlier, you might have to look for someone who is non-monogamous.

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