Boyfriends sleeping habbits ahh!!!

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Just made a post earleir if to leave relationship, he's just woke up (half 2pm) isn't working has been of sick with his hand injury for over a month now, he thinks it's acceptable just sleep in all day I'm nagging him to wake up and it's not his fault he can't sleep at a reasonable time so I'm left going bed my own then I wake up he's still awake on his tablet and wonders why Im mad?? Should be wanting spent time me on my day off not going bed during the day what's the point?? He's said I need to find friends and hobbies?? Am I in the wrong?? Don't feel like it! Now he's wondering why I'm not happy and in a mood, really don't know what to do I still love him and hurts me :(

My ex was like this, never done anything around the house, didnt work. One of the contributing factors (although there was many) to me leaving him was this. I would go to bed on my own and wake up and he was asleep on the sofa.

It would irritate me no end and I stopped wanting sex with him because I felt like that's the only time he wanted to come into our bed. It's actually a big thing to share that intimacy side in bed together.

I cant really advise because I got rid of him anyway but I can sympathise because it really isn't a nice feeling sharing with someone but sleeping separately at different times.

My XH used to mess around downstairs on his laptop or watching television then come to bed at 4am, waking me when I had to be up at half six, moan that I'd disturbed him when I did get up and be faffing about on the laptop, unwashed, when I got home at half five.

It was infuriating.

How old is he? Any older than early 20’s and he needs to sort his life out!

He's behaving like a teenager! Just because you're not working that doesn't mean its normal to stay up all night and sleep all day. What's the point in that. Does he help around the house when you're at work? I'm going to take a wild guess he doesn't.