Been with oh for three years we live together and have done since three month in ,we both have dcs but not together . In the beginning and for a good two years we have been brilliant together only really daft arguments nothing serious until my dd fell pregnant now it's rows most weeks about how I'm spending all my time with her on my days off how I'm neglecting the house and housework and he is having to do everything , I've tried to explain that I'm doing my best re housework but am in pain all the time with my back and am doing my best think 10 minutes doing dishes and my back is screaming it doesn't help that I do a housekeeping job so come home in pain anyway and am getting by on painkillers most days .
Tonight after not talking to me for a couple of days he said he is setting ground rules and if I don't like it then it's tough , I really feel like saying shove your rules but at minute I'm stuck for somewhere to stay although I could spend a couple of days where I work .
Has it run its course or do I just keep trying and hopefully make him realise I'm doing my best