I live in the city and my grandad lives in a nearby village. It's not really far away but its two bus rides...the second of which takes about an hour and there and back it costs quite a bit in fares.
Anyway he's always saying I don't go and see him enough. I went before my holiday and I came back from there last week. Last Monday my mum said "I've told grandad we'll go on friday, are you coming?" so I said no. 1 reason for this is that I've just come back off holiday and money is extremely tight until I get paid next week and another reason is that my uni course started last week and I had arranged to go and buy my books on friday.
So she started saying "oh, he'll be disapointed...you know what he's like..." so I said "sorry but I had already arranged things for friday and I cant afford to go this week anyway" so she started saying jokingly "I'm going to tell him you wont come even though we arranged it" I never arranged anything...SHE arranged to go, not me.
Anyway, she went on friday...I spent the day buying my books and studying. When she got home she phoned me and said that my grandad was disapointed that I didn't go. I was angry because I never said I was going in the first place and I feel like I'm always expected to jump when people say. I told her I was busy but she just says I'm making excuses not to go.
Anyway she then said "I've told him we'll arrange something for next week but I don't know what day..." so angrily I snapped "I don't know what I'm doing next week".
I didn't mean to snap but I hate things being organised for me and I cant stand people trying to boss me around.
Am I being out of order?