My partner and I (same sex couple females) have been together for 2 years. We were at a garden BBQ the other week where her gay male best friend had too much too drink (and who usually is the life and soul of every party....go figure) ended up taking me aside to talk to me. They have been friends for 15 years and spoke about him being a donor for her as a joke many many moons ago.
But at this chat with me he openly told me he loved her and would do anything for her, including laying his life on the line for her. That her mum amongst others have said that they are so close that they should just get married. He said he would marry her in a heartbeat and could easily cohabitate with her but when it came to bring intimate, he couldn’t. But he brought up the fact that he thinks they should marry because they’d have a great life and could have sexual relationships outside of the marriage. I was shocked.
Then he tells me they recently discussed having kids together again, but that he would need to be involved as he couldn’t just be a donor so technically it wouldn’t work, but in his words ‘he would give her a baby in a heartbeat’. This was all very hard for me to listen to as that is my partner and it was at a family event, where luckily with music blaring nobody else heard. My partner heard parts but didn’t say anything. She pulled me aside after and asked me what was said and she said not to believe him as he talks so much rubbish when drunk. I said to her that she should have interrupted and called him out and she said it wasn’t worth it as he would have just exploded and made things more embarrassing as he was already causing issues and being obnoxious to her brother.
Am I wrong for being upset at hearing this and thinking this is out of order? He usually moans when she is through seeing me and phones and texts her everyday. When we’re not together he is with her.